perthhibee:
Most (not all) poker players are lazy. So if they are going to make it they will do it themself. By nature lazy people dont like being told what to do or follow rules that require effort. They will do it when they feel like it... does that make sense? Ha
First of all, this is a huge generalization and second of all being "lazy" is not a quality and shouldn't be an argument in the discussion. Effort is necessary to succeed at poker and there's an ideal amount of pressure you should be under to operate at your best (google Yerkes–Dodson law or "flow"). It's true that too much pressure can be just as bad as no pressure at all, but some amount of pressure is necessary.
Think about it. Would you say what you wrote above to your landlord when he's asking for rent? Or to the professor who asks why you skipped a couple of classes? Or to your girlfriend when she confronts you after you failed to show up at a date? "Lazy" is not a valid argument in any other discussion so it shouldn't be a valid argument here. You're constantly told what to do in direct or indirect ways by the government, by the marketers, by your superiors or by your friends and family members, and often for a good reason.
Oh and you mentioned that poker is not team game... this is precisely the reason why coaching and study group are among the most effective tools for improving at poker. It's crucial to have someone who can contest your preconceived notions because human mind has this amazing capacity of rationalizing everything and we all have this amazing capacity to think that we're far better than we actually are ("75% of poker players think they are better than... the other 75% of players"). Very few players will ever admit to themselves that their strategy might not be very good. Most of us think we're playing solid, but since in poker only 10% or so players can be winners due to the existence of rake it becomes obvious that we often give ourselves way too much credit.
PokerVIP staking is a great opportunity. It's certainly not the only way of becoming successful at poker but it's one of the better ones and given the fact that only a few people so far managed to take advantage of it goes to show how hard it might be to become good at poker on your own.
To go out on a lighter note, but still highlight how hard it is to win at poker I'll quote my good friend: "No money for cane sugar... everyone's solid!".