jongordon84:
BUT... I haven't applied for staking. I haven't signed a contract, or made promises. I'm not being given the money to play. But you can bet when the day comes that I do apply, and if I get accepted, you can scrap everything I've just said. I don't care how hard it is, you get an opportunity like that you grab it and run. Lose sleep, fall behind on whatever Netflix series you're watching. Hell put on a few pounds cos you haven't got time for the gym. I sympathize with everyone who doesn't have time to do the things they want to do. But I do not sympathize with the stakees. You took it on. You asked for the opportunity, and were lucky enough to get it. So step up and make the most of it. There are plenty of people waiting to take your place.
What you're describing here would be awesome if the staking project was some kind of summer bootcamp where people with a couple of spare months go to train 24/7 to become Poker gods (I would still be applying if this was the drill).
In this case you would be right, there should be no excuses, all other commitments must take a backseat since this is what the stakees have signed up for.
However, that's not what's being offered here - when you join the staking team you're supposedly joining to stay with the team for the long term, many months even years ideally I think
@Jon-PokerVIP would agree. You can hype people up to go crazy for a month or two, but long term goals and motivation are a lot different. It would be totally within the site's right to state that they want only members who are willing to devote their life to studying and playing poker in exchange for the resources Jon and the site can provide, but once again this is not what is being asked for - otherwise all the guys with college/work would have to leave, leaving the staking team at around 0 I believe.
You fail to understand that some of the examples you point out of sacrifices you "would" be willing to undertake "if" you decide to join the staking team at some point are simply unsustainable in the long term. Gaining weight and getting inadequate sleep are pretty much 101 to fucking your mental game. That is why I think
@Jon-PokerVIP has it spot on with a mix of long term goals as well as short challenges such as the
@mingthemerciless93 challenge recently where stakees can show off their short term work rate.
Shout out to @Jon-PokerVIPRecommended Background Music to lighten the moodYour final point is about the fact that
There are plenty of people waiting to take your place.
Indeed there are, people join the team and leave the team all the time and so far a grand total of 0 of them have been able to stick out the staking project for a long, successful period of time. Like literally, I only joined the staking team at the beginning of this summer and not a single member in the team at the time (and the team was much larger back then) are still around now. Each time this happens it's disheartening for Jon who feels he's wasted his time and money.
Jon after another disappointmentI remember back when I was just a forum member during my exams rearing for a chance to get involved with staking,
I thought the solution for the site was to harshen the requirements for new stakees to join. But are we really going to conclude that 100% of past stakees were bad applicants? Statistically unlikely at the very least. Were they all just uninspired? Certainly not, this is one of the criteria Jon looks for when selecting new stakees and also tries to instil in them throughout. Is there enough support from the stakers? Yes, from my experience. So Are these people just lazy then? It's a possibility, but it would seem strange that all of the lazy people are the ones who decide to take up staking, whereas the hard working guys are observing while sipping cups of tea on the forum.
Note: I'm not trying to make excuses for people missing the contract. A contract has the benefit of being clear cut, you either sign it and agree to it or you don't. My point is simply that there are side effects of being unrealistic with your expectations either from stakees or as a stakee. I believe that if you're going to have success in the long term it's going to be from having smart, pragmatic goals - recognising that there will be ups and downs along the way and when the spots come along for a spark of extraordinary endeavour, to have the energy and mindset to seize them with better preparation and support than the guys who don't have the benefits that staking provides.
Those are my thoughts anyway.
Edit: Added some chicks and background music to make this post a little lighter.